Even worse, the fact that it is so ingrained, Rey doesn't even think about it before it comes out. More often than not, she isn't entirely sure why people are so upset over something that hasn't even happened to them.

That was before, anyway. Fortunately, she has a better understanding of such things now. Which makes it all the more terrible when she pulls verbal punches with the implications that she does so to intentionally distance herself.

...And then Firo just had to go and pull that card out of his hand. Rey just huffs at first, her eyes narrowing. She sees what you did there, bro.

"Really? That again?"